“Do I wanna break up?” – Yes, you do! If you have to ask the Internet, you’re already past that point. Most relationships should end as soon as at least one of the partners realizes they’re leading to nowhere. If you spend more time talking about the relationship, especially problems, rather than enjoying it, it’s time to move on.
When a couple’s life turns into a dull routine or vice versa into non-stop fights, breaking up seems inevitable. But some people still can’t dare to get off the sinking ship. Believe me, you should leave when your inner voice tells you to. But what to do in case your inner voice is treacherously silent? How to find out that your “love” have no future anymore? Let’s try to figure that out together, considering eleven signs it’s definitely time to leave your relationship.
1. Abuse Is an Issue
Physical, verbal, emotional, or maybe drug and alcohol abuse – no matter what you mean. If it’s present in your relationship – it’s time to run! Abuse in any respect is the most evident sign. Don’t make a classic mistake: don’t be manipulated by those promises to change, begs for forgiveness, and 100 reasons why I love you. Of course, you have every right to forgive and forget the first incident, but don’t blame anyone else if she does it again. When you spend a lot of your time hoping that she will change for the better, it’s not going to happen, and it’s not going to work out. Stop trying to make it work.
2. Trust No Longer Exists
If you both don’t trust each other anymore, don’t share your innermost thoughts, it’s one of the biggest indicators you’ve strayed from the path. Lying is not normal for a healthy loving relationship. So, once you feel your partner is not completely honest with you, or if you can’t (don’t want to) be open, express ALL your thoughts and feelings, wishes and dreams… you’ll gradually become strangers from that point.
3. Cheating Is In Play – You Are Out
Cheating is always a bad sign, no matter if you’ve done it many times or made a mistake only once because you‘re unhappy in a relationship. Unless you have an agreement to be in an open relationship, cheating is unacceptable. You can learn to forgive each other, but if it happens again and again, you’re likely to fail all efforts to come back and start all over again. Through cheating, you can tell each other that this relationship is not enough for you.