…And the most irritating comment I tend to hear frequently from women ‘…after all I have done and gone through for him…’ This statement is very pathetic, to say the least. Granted, if you’re ‘doing’ and your expected result is not forthcoming, why do you keep doing ‘it’?
Nobody forced you to do anything for him. And you absolutely didn’t/don’t have to. Not every relationship ends in marriage and some should not even end in marriage. Funny enough, these ladies forget that the man also ‘did’ something even if it was not in equal measure!
If you ask what the person has done and gone through, the funny ones out of the lot they have done:
‘All the sex’ – It’s mutual so far as you didn’t shout rape! Ladies sometimes ‘feel’ or ‘think’ they’re doing men a favour by having sex with them – as if they also don’t enjoy it. If it was not consensual, you can always report to the police you were raped. If you don’t want to ‘sleep’ with someone, don’t do it, it’s not an obligation. A spouse is obligated to not a girlfriend/fiancée (fiancée is not wife).
‘All my time’ – I don’t buy this idea of ladies always saying ‘he wasted my time’. Nobody wastes anybody’s time. If a lady does not know what to do with her time, someone will definitely waste it for her. I cleaned, I cook etc. But then, the man also used (wasted) his time?