I have always maintained the stance that if you cannot allow your manhood to stay at its home then you might as well find people who are legal to sink your lustful desires in. The situation is far worse when the said person who committed such a never fading mark is a pastor or a man of God.
I know some of you people would come and say a man of God is also of flesh and we are not even going to dispute that for all the wealth in the whole— however we would love for our so called men of God to live the exemplary lives their God lived.