At some point in your life (if not already) the proverbial “shit happens” and all you want to do after that is figure out how to get over a broken heart. If it hasn’t happened already, it might or you may just be one of those lucky few who are able to cruise through their entire life with just one loving mate. But to the awful tons of people who aren’t that lucky and have broken up, still crying their hearts out over a dead relationship or still licking their wounds, this may be an eye opener.
Life can be harsh at times and break-ups can be painful, but you’ve got to move along. Your ex partner has moved on, haven’t they? So what’s holding you back? I know it’s hard and it will take a while to get past it but there’s no happy ending in looking for a little ray of sunshine by hovering around.
Perhaps the break up was mutual (most mutual break ups don’t hurt that much) but if your heart still aches and you’re the only one suffering then my guess is that you are still in love with your ex. And the love is one sided! If it was real ‘mutual’ love (till both your dying breaths) then why did they walk out and why are they having fun right now whilst you gorge your eyes out?
Yes, I know he/she was the only one that mattered to you and now your heart is split in two and you don’t think you can last a minute without that person by your side but trust me, it will pass. Some of us survived it and so can you.
As difficult as it may seem, you need to understand that you have mourned enough. To help you along that journey of self discovery and acceptance of the fact that there are many more fish in the sea, here is every single thing you need to do to ensure a speedy recovery and a quick jump into happy land…