The principal problem with a lot of Ghanaian men and women, mostly unintelligent, when it comes to relationships is that they run with a lot of false theories, assumptions and hold on to several judgemental bronze age dogmas.
Their idea of a perfect man or woman is defined by philosophies they cannot understand or explain–if not by academic theories imported on whole sale without contextual relevance. They are deeply judgemental and wouldn’t take time to get to know someone themselves before forming robust opinions about them.
For instance, everyone who gets to know me beyond my often offensive online writings, a path I have consciously taken because of the population I deal with, soon comes to say; you are completely different to whatever I envisaged about you.
That’s the Ghanaian: they judge before they analyse or get to have a clear picture.
Imagine what would have happened if the woman I married took me to completely and solely stand for a “shallow gossip writing Chris-Vincent” who mostly gets people enraged with his brutal honest writings—there’s a much-cherished layer to a lot of people when it comes to relationships.
When most people get to know I am a “legal polymath” and I hold two Masters degrees in Law from respected UK institutions, they get shocked. Why? Because, they’ve from a distance, formed absolute beliefs about me without any room for error.
Many Ghanaian women are all about money, fame and whatever when it comes to relationships, we mostly claim. Let’s not forget that the men ride on warped notions such as a woman at a certain age has problems if she is single, I’ve heard enough of this.

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