Mid last week, a friend who seems to enjoy having affairs with the wives and girlfriends of others was cornered in an argument and his response as to why he is addicted to taking interest in the “properties”’of others has prompted this article.
Beyond the illusion that the grass is greener at the other side, I was of the view that a lot women and men in and out of relationships sometimes prefer unavailable individuals because of the great investments the partners of these people have made in them.
A fine woman wearing expensive weave and smelling good would certainly get the immediate attention of men, compared to a wretched or unkempt woman of the same physical attributes.
I understand a lot of women and men invest in themselves, those were not the subject of our conversation or are not of this piece.
When you are in a relationship with someone, the reasonable position is to invest in the betterment of that person—and many men and women do this.

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