A lot of people are worried about Becca marrying a Nigerian and though there is no scientific evidence that Ghanaian-Nigerian showbiz relationships or marriages do not last, there seems to be a lot of contemporary examples backing their fears.
No one should wish another doom, especially when they take the steps to get married. But marriage, mostly glorified, is a social contract that only works under the belt of understanding, familiarity, unending sacrifice and contentment.
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I don’t know what Becca and her new Nigerian husband have decided, but an important question is; where will they live together? Ghana or Nigeria?
I hope they did not say they will travel between countries. Because while this sounds doable and even fun, it wouldn’t work.
Would the man who has his achievements and connections in Nigeria suddenly move to live in Ghana, a country Nigerians see as small as one state in Nigeria, where he probably means nothing to even the Waakye seller?
Would Becca give up everything in Ghana to go and play second or rising star to Tiwa Savage and the rest?
The conundrum is confusing, more than the above, especially if you are aware of Becca’s unfettered obstinacy and stubbornness.
I hope they have a fix for it because we don’t want another Chris Attoh and Damilola kind of breakup anytime soon.
If you give me a million dollar to bet on whether the marriage will last or not, I know where I will secure my bet to make a good win.
I wish them well but well-wishing does not guarantee anything. One must be ready to let go of a lot in a foreign country if they want this marriage to work.
Marrying anyone from a different country, not only Nigeria, comes with added work.
This post was published on August 19, 2018 10:13 AM
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