One thing I have always sounded clear to my mother is never to allow the pressures of society and the bid to conform to one Godforsaken norm make her put any unwarranted pressure on me when the issue of marriage pops up in any of our conversation and she has since never mentioned it.
In recent times, people would do whatever it takes to not only get that ring on their fingers but to have a lavishi wedding all in the name of being part of a trend. 
No one is saying weddings are of no relevance but if you are not ready, there is actually no need to subject yourself to such primitive societal pressures and that is exactly what Nana Ama of Ghana’s Most Beautiful Six fame is doing.
According to the young child psychologist, she is not going to bend to such things and though people have misconstrued her stance to be a phobia of commitment, she says she has swarm past that.
Speaking to Showbiz, she said:
“You know being the first child and the only girl of my parents, I do get my mom pushing me about this marriage stuff but the point is, I am not ready yet financially. I want to be able to bring something to the table in order to have a smooth family life. I cannot leave everything to my man.”
She added that people have still gotten the effrontery to tell to just have a child which she has vehemently refused.
“Some even tell me to just have a child and I say no. They now think I am scared of commitment but that is not the case. I am in a committed relationship but I am not ready to settle yet.
“There is no point in letting these things get to you, you cannot avoid them but you need to defend yourself. Defend by getting your life in order. Don’t marry and be a burden on the man, get something going, get something in your account to support the man you are married to. Until then, do not allow pressure get to you.”