Dear Chris-Vincent,

I hope you are doing great.

I have been dating my Nigerian girlfriend for 3 months and she is a wonderful lady.

In fact, she is not anything like the existing stereotypes about Nigerian women. She is not loud, not aggressive and she has a kind heart.

Though everything is going well and the relationship is still in our earlier days, I have a big problem which I do not know how to let her know.

She smells down there which makes me really uncomfortable whenever we have sex. It actually puts me off and I am not talking about a light scent, something really harsh to the nose.

The conundrum therefore is, how do I tell her she smells down there without offending her especially because she is that sensitive type.

Even right after a shower, when we do it, the smell still will be exuding.

Obeng A/UK

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