A heated debate has sprung up amongst social media users in Nigeria after one lady sparked controversy with a post on marriage and divorce.
Nkechi Bianze is the lady in question, and she set off a real firestorm with her comments in which she said women are meant to cheat and men cannot divorce them just based on that.
Her post, which many (men) can’t handle, seems deliberately worded to troll men, using arguments generally used to excuse male cheating. That’s how it reads to me anyway, but many are taking her at face value and are just exploding.
Or maybe she’s serious…that would be quite interesting.
Read her controversial post below….
Guys need to understand that women are polygamous in nature, most especially Nigerian women. It is in the nature of women to cheat.
A recent survey reported that 62% of Nigerian women are unfaithful. That’s to tell you that it’s in the nature of women, most especially Nigerian women to cheat.
Cheating or not is at the discretion of the wife!
If as a man you find a woman who doesn’t cheat on you, then you are just lucky. But stop giving yourself unnecessary heartache checking her phones and keeping a prying eye on her.
If your wife cheats on you, it doesn’t mean that she doesn’t love you. A woman can love and respect you but still cheat on you. It just means that she wants to explore. As long as she still respects you by at least being discreet with her sexcapades, and still plays her roles as a wife, I see no reason why you should get worked up over it. I mean, it’s not like the vagina is going to disappear or change in colour and shape.
It is stupidity to divorce your wife just because she cheats on you. How many do you want to marry? The next woman might even be worse.
And remember that according to the Bible, if you decide to divorce your wife for any reason at all, you are expected to remain celibate for life, or till she dies.
I hope God gives our men the wisdom to understand that cheating is NOT enough reason to divorce their wives, or even complain at all.
Happy Monday everyone. ❤❤❤
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