PYPER PEBBLES Writes: "Stop Idolising Boyfriends Because They Are NOT Husbands"- Forgetting That When God Sends You A Husband, He's Likely To Start Off As Your Boyfriend

I have been seeing this meme around for a while now and I did what I normally do when I see people saying whatever they can for frivolous points for relevance in the media— kept it moving.
But the last time I saw it and realised it was repeated by no less a person than, the self acclaimed marriage counsellor Lutterodt, I realised it was giving some jealous and desperate women Red Bull wings .
They shouted hallelujah, ran up and down the aisles, and waved this in the face of the men who met them last week to prep him for the pressure coming if he didn’t hurry up and pop the question.
So what exactly is going on in this meme? lie now and be honest later : that technique is a bullsh**ter’s best friend.
That’s where you say something completely wrong but end it on a good note so the credibility and emotions high spreads to the rest of your argument and people forget to think about the entire message.
Richard Nixon was famous for this; “stop idolising boyfriends” he said?.
I’m not begrudging him and many who had said similar statements— you shouldn’t idolise anyone; husbands and pets included, so that should be the more honest part of the quote.
But as for the part where desperate  chics do jumping jacks, ” a man has done nothing for you until he’s made you a wife …” talk is crap.
Who said most women want marriage in the first place? secondly must everything a woman achieve in life or in a relationship be based on marriage?
The courtship is where the foundation of a relationship is built, also said to be the most important. It’s where a man proves his ability to love  and support you with his actions and vice versa so why would a woman in her right mind reduce that to “nothing” in the name of getting a wedding ring.?
There are boyfriends who’ve literally died for their girlfriends, so throwing relationships this far out of context is not only misguided, but likely to leave a woman without a husband for the rest of her life.
Why? because desperation is to men, with no job, bad credit, and an addiction to Call of Duty is to women . HUGE red flag.
The primary reason both good men and women leave relationships, is because of a lack of appreciation. So being brainless enough to run with this kind of mindset(in the meme) will end something that could be beautiful before it even gets a chance to start.
Most women kill beautiful enfant emotions when they refuse to reciprocate it for it, to even be planted regardless.
Real women know how to focus on the goal at hand while being grateful for the journey it takes to get there. When God sends you a husband, he’s likely to start off as your boyfriend. Saying that he’s done nothing for you is a huge slap in the face to both of them.
So if a man has truly done nothing before you get to the altar, then you have no business giving him the honour of taking you there.