The preserve of the strange and quirky story seems to be our sisters Nigeria, the land so vast that everything seems possible.
How else can you explain this story, where a man gets a court to grant him divorce due to claims his wife does not have a vagina? The man, Femi Olayiwole, had been married to his wife for three years but claims they never had seks.
Somehow, and despite the fact they’ve never slept together, this man says they prayed to God for children, and blames his wife for deceiving him when she knew perfectly well she was incapable of giving birth. But unless she’s the virgin Mary I don’t see how this man hoped to conceive without seks.
He managed to convince the judge, who also because the woman had refused summons to appear before the court went ahead and granted the divorce.
Here’s Mr Femi’s story….
“My wife had been deceiving me since we got married I have never seen her pass through menstruation. My wife does not have any vagina opening. Anytime I ask her for sex, she would give an excuse to back up her refusal.
Meanwhile, we have been praying to God to give us children. My wife did not tell me anything about her condition before we got married, until February this year that she confessed to me that she had never experienced menstruation in her life. I thought she was lying, so I went to see her parents who told me it was true, and that they thought their daughter explained to me before we got married”
LOL, you see why no seks before marriage is a ridiculous proposition.
As a Christian i don’t believe in s*x before marriage. This is something that should have been done at the hospital to confirm that everyone is fit. You deserve that divorce.
Look GC, your argument for having sex before marriage based on this issue is baseless. Just because one event such as this happens, doesn’t mean it happens frequently and that you should turn your back on or sin against God who frowns towards sexual immorality.
There are ways to go around this problem if you are serious and willing to commit to the ways of God. One example is during counselling it is advised that certain tests be done before marriage for the benefit of both partners.
bunch of people say no s*x before marriage…… but they are the same people who have s*x before marriage……….90% of people have s*x before marriage…. and im one of them,,….. lets get facts straight and stop….. being hypocrites
You can’t persuade people to start having s*x before marriage over one person or your personal opinion. A lot of people come from strict family backgrounds or culture, doesn’t tie in with their religion or it could be a personal choice. I would never have s*x with a man who is not married to me because that requires a lot of commitment and the value of s*x has diminished so quickly due to loose morals and commercialisation. It’s not easy to get naked and exchange bodily fluids like that. So personally, I definitely will not be having s*x with some dude or a boyfriend ever.
Where did you get 90% from?