I am one of the many contemporary women who careless about morality for the reason that, women should not be expected to be moral gods while men live whatever life they want.
If morality is so important, then it should apply to everyone—not just women and women should not be expected to do anything than men wouldn’t be expected to do.
On the moral ladder, many even think women shouldn’t drink, smoke or want to kiss a man on just meeting the person—yet men are allowed to do all these things without any prejudice or judgment. Do not get me upset by arguing that men are superior human beings or something like that with such distorted moral expectations.
As a GhanaCelebrities.Com contributor and reader, I came across a readers’ mail titled “Are The Ladies in the KKD Alleged Rape Case Naive Or DUMB?’ and pathetically, it was written by a woman who thinks the moral standards or stupidity of the KKD rape victim matter…
Any argument along the lines that, she should have known better by not following KKD into the hotel room or a woman should have known better not to accept drinks or kiss from a stranger translate into; the fact that a woman is morally corrupt (does not care about certain moral standards) means a man has the RIGHT to violate her integrity by raping her.
What kind of absurd arguments are we making out here? If the women were dumb, naïve, stupid, drunk, star struck, childish or whatever—none of these matters when it comes to rape because none gives any man the right to rape or attempt to kiss a woman.
You want to question the moral standards of women when it comes to rape or in this circumstance, yet you do not want to condemn the moral standards of men who meet women they don’t know from Adam and proceed to want to sleep with them—and even in doing so, fail to use condoms.
You want to discuss morality without considering the position for a man who is old enough to be the father or a woman, luring the woman with some promise into a hotel bathroom and proudly accepting that he had ‘consensual’ sex with such a young woman capable of being his daughter.
Anyone who wants to accuse the women of being dumb or morally corrupt is indirectly arguing that, because these women lack what society regards as moral uprightness, it gives some equally morally corrupt men the right to abuse them.
When it comes to rape; there is no BUT. What the person was wearing is irrelevant, what the person did is irrelevant and certainly, the person’s part does not also matter. What is important is; the person’s right to decide either to allow s*x or not was taken away from her—the person’s dignity and integrity were violated.
Let’s end this moral arguments and evaluation of circumstances because it does not really matter. Such discussions only go further to entrench our societal inequality which expects more from women and less or nothing from men.
No matter your religious or moral teachings, when it comes to rape; what matters is CONSENT—and every other thing should be thrown into the trash can. It’s really heart breaking if you read women making such absurd arguments…
Morality my backside!
I agree totally with this article
And CONSENT should be granted before the poking begins. Once the poking starts if the CONSENT is withdrawn, then the guy has to stop and finish elsewhere. However CONSENT cannot be withdrawn after the poking is finished. Meaning if you have a buyer’s remorse you cannot then pretend you didn’t consent to be poked. Which is what some women do.
Thanks for the feminist horde the relationship between man/women is moving into a very litigious place where everything has to be documented and signed off. A married man cannot be spontaneous and jump his wife for the fear of being accused of rape. Tragically misunderstandings during s*x has been bandied together with violent rape. Which is violent, non s*xual and is about power.
Ironically the same feminist hordes are against prostitution. Where some women willingly exchange sex for money. Even in that realm where women are quite often in control, men are blamed and shamed. A man can lose his job, status, family and get jailed all because he paid to calm his natural urge. Now when you consider all this, the hidden agenda of the so called feminists begins to take shape. Which is the physical neutering of all men. If men somehow managed to create sex robots to sate their s*xual urges, the women will be out in force to ban them or make them illegal.
I think in the end men should just ignore women all together and go their own way. It is the safest and peaceful way. When they want to satisfy the urge, they should get a reliable hooker, come to an understanding on price, positions, boundaries and get it done.
When men take that position, there will be no need for mini skirts, high heels, lipsticks and all the cosmetics. Women will lose their value. Yes some women will wear them, but no man will give a damn. Men will have no reason to compete with each other, they’ll save their money rather than waste it on flashy cars, yachts and mansions. In fact the whole fashion industry will collapse. Women will be left to try and impress each other. Which will not go very far because women don’t like each other very much. Left to their own devices they’ll implode. Their beauty and sexiness can only be validated by men. What is the value of a woman’s pu**y to other women who are not lesbians? Nothing! And yet the same thing is what is used to lord over men.
In the world where every man is a potential rapist according to the feminists, men ignoring women for any sort of intimate relationship is the only way forward. And until the s*x robots are created men should only use reliable hookers or their hands to get off. When men attain this freedom they will not look at any other entitled woman again. Even when they spread it, men will not be interested and will move on. Which will be a symbol of man revoking his CONSENT. The consent that makes us the scapegoats for everything wrong in women’s lives. A symbolic No Mas!!
Having done that the world will be peachy for women. They’ll suddenly become better humans. Their lives will be perfect. Protests such as the one depicted will cease and women worldwide will hold hands singing kumbaya!!
Men on the other hand will have their peace. Sure, the world of women will crumble but they will be safe and without all the latent “rapists”. They will live in their crumbled apartments, roads and infrastructure having no men to repair them.
Men’s world will flourish, being the stronger, daring, more innovative of the species. We may die off but we will still be prosperous.
I agree with some of your points.
Nevertheless I think men and women need each other.
The problem is that due to changes within the last 50 years it has caused a lot of men and women to have an “identity crisis”. The results are high divorce rates, broken homes, illegitimate children, rape as well as false rape accusations etc.
We must teach the upcoming youth(both men and women)about their gender roles and answer questions such as “What does it mean to be a man or woman?”
i see an agenda to cripple men and make women superior, women are favoured when there is a civil case between a man n a woman. a new rape law now claims that you the accused have to prove that the woman gave her consent to have s*x with u where in reality it is almost impossible to do so from how they define and interpret consent. the world is getting crazier by the day
Things that cause drowning;
1. Jumping into the ocean without knowing how to swim
2. Wearing a dress with lead weights
3. Drinking too much and being intoxicated
4. Ocean or water body
The answer? Number 4. It’s the ocean’s fault don’t cha know??
When it comes to rape; there is no BUT. What the person was wearing is
irrelevant, what the person did is irrelevant and certainly, the
person’s part does not also matter. What is important is; the person’s
right to decide either to allow s*x or not was taken away from her—the
person’s dignity and integrity were violated.
I disagree with that statement.
For both men and women what you wear says a lot about YOU. If u are dressed like a shashewowo or like a pimp people will associate you with a certain character although u re not like that.
This also includes your body language, choice of words and ur actions.
So what a person does is relevant.
For example if a drunk woman has s’x with a drunk man she can not blame him and scream “RAPE” because she didnt not ACT RESPONSIBLE enough.
You right