Dear GC Readers,

I am in a big problem and for about a month now since my new man who has treated me like a Queen decided to discuss having baby with, I have not been myself. I have been thinking a lot and he is even worried as to what I have been thinking about.

I was nearly ran over by a car last Friday after work because my mind was far away. I have had bad experience with a number of men. Some having taken my money and for two others, they just used me to acquire their legal stays.

This man I met about 9 months ago is totally difference; he treats me like I am the most precious thing in the world. He does not have his legal stay yet but he has told me his lawyers have been working on that for him for some years now.

Last month, my handsome man talked to me about getting married and proceeding to have a baby. I am super excited about the first part (the marriage) but there is a big problem when it comes to the second.

I had an operation when I was in my 20s and I was told I cannot have a baby. It’s not that my womb has been taken off, it is intact but a little complicated. I am a Christian and I believe in what our Lord Jesus Christ can do so I believe one day if indeed God wants me to have a baby, it will happen.

My problem is; should I tell my man about what doctors told me some years ago before the marriage or just keep praying and not tell him as I believe a miracle will happen.

He really loves kids and I am scared things will change if I mention what doctors said to me some years ago.

Please what should I do?

From: Matilda A / USA

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