Though unconfirmed, GhanaCelebrities.Com has been given the above photo as the 19 year old girl-Effe that KKD is alleged to have raped (girl right without a spectacle)—a charge which has seen KKD being locked at the Airport Police Station in Accra.
In related news, people have descended on KKD calling him a hypocrite on social media—because of the below article wrote on his facebook wall in June,2014.
Read the full write-up below…
Tempted to touch? Think again. Your freedom ends where someone’s nose begins.
To all the young ladies who have been violated by mates, employers, teachers, superiors at work and people higher up the economic ladder in your communities, know that you can be helped if you report it. For the many young ladies and gentlemen who are suffering same this day in silence, your unwillingness to confront those who commit these acts embolden and empower them to continue: You today, someone weaker and more vulnerable or more gullible tomorrow.
Permit me to be base and state it as it is: Whether some creep is fondling your breasts at work, touching your bum, groping you each time you are called to their office or coercing you to attend hotels and private residences with them, know that you don’t have to live with this.
Report them at work and home; report them to the police and seek redress in a court of law. You will not eat stones if you don’t let them have their way.
You too are somebody’s valued child and someone’s respected present or future spouse.
Our collective failure to confront those who abuse any of us makes them bolder. It is never too late to stop what’s wrong. And now.., to my article….#civics #commonsense #manners #etiquette #hrbkkd #hisroyalblackness
Everyone deserves a right to their personal space. We make contact with others by choice, not by coercion nor intimidation. Wherever it is done by the latter, people have the right to pull away, fight back or seek redress in court.
As part of civics and etiquette it behoves parents and teachers to let the young irrespective of culture, colour and creed know right from wrong, and boundaries in life’s common situations.
“Reach out and touch somebody’s hand; make this world a better place” no you can’t. That is unless they invite you to touch them or are in dire need of a helping hand.
A brief, firm handshake is the TOUCH of choice that must suffice for everyone in the workplace and most social circles.
Touché.
Anything more, and one is cruising for a bruising at a work tribunal or in a court of competent jurisdiction.
For family and true friends, a warm hug or kiss on the cheek is in order. The long embrace and kisses in the moonlight are best reserved for the one true love one has else what’s the difference between the cognoscenti and the great unwashed.
… Just because someone opens their arms wide does not mean the young, innocent or naive should hug them. Open arms and a come hither smile does not convert the ill-intentioned from the devious old fox in Little Red Riding Hood into a soft and cuddly teddy bear.
My father taught me to meet open arms with a polite, warm and firm handshake, if the are not trusted friends or family: A smile in the face and a knife in the back oft occurs during an embrace.
Over-familiarity with people one does not really know is a sign of weakness, trying too hard and sometimes inferiority and desperation; in fact it is a brand pillar of the lower classes if such still exists at all.
One shall learn about or be introduced to another prior to a handshake. Thereafter conversation helps decipher the probable future touchable from the definitely undesirable, unconscionable and untouchable.
Good manners inform society that maintaining the handshake for an entire month in the least after meeting in person is minimum requirement for getting to know people.
Pretense may ensue but well-peeled eyes shall see the concealed flaws and look no further than a firm handshake, saving both parties unnecessary gate-crashing and misappropriation of personal space before a swift parting of ways.
Good touch signals welcome, civility, respect.
For family and close friends it signals warmth, delight, love.
Bad touch conveys disrespect, denigration, lust, plunder, abuse.
The young and old, the properly dressed and even the nearly unclothed must maintain clear boundaries and a sensible distance to avoid bad touch at all costs.
Wise parents have advised their young for years; No touch for strangers. Unless they are properly introduced by known and trusted persons, avoid touching them as you would the plague. No touch for fleeting acquaintances, not even at festive occasions. Exceptions are made for public greetings at funerals and the select few gatherings of academia, industry and sporting activities. Still, if touching in plain sight casts a doubt, you will do well to leave it out.
In the case of family and good friends, no touch can be disconcerting as it is a sign of discontent and neglect. At best it says ‘leave me be’ or signals a need for conversation to fix an existing problem.
No touch is, however, less worrisome than excessive touching: Those invasive glides of the hand on arms as he/she laughs at some unfunny joke, that uncomfortable knee-holding as they attempt to illustrate a point or shift in their seat, what with the face-feeling as they compliment your skin, and invasive thigh-cruising as they pretend to be speaking about something of interest.
Letting these pass unchallenged and unstopped can be akin to signaling to the world that nearly everyone is a bosom friend and potential candidate for dancing beneath the sheets.
On the one hand one suggestive song goes ‘Tempted to touch’ and on the other Law Enforcement and Health & Safety say
‘Hazard. Keep off.’
The wind may carry what people say
And the ears hear truth as well as hearsay
The eyes may see what people do
And the nose smell well what’s wafting through
but Touch is oft deliberate and intimate.
Yes, intimate.
And in the same manner as it leads to tickles of fancy and passion,
it also leads to harassment, grievous bodily harm, caution or prison.
So unless he/she deliberately invited you to
Think twice before you touch their waist.
Unless you are dating him/her too
Don’t reach for their bum in playful haste.
Spend some quality time to woo
before you close in on their personal space.
Check your manners before you brush against a thigh
Of one who momentarily catches your eye.
Touch is personal and sensitive;
Its use ought to be restrictive.
So keep your invitations to be touched clear and limited. And keep your touch uncommon lest you become common;
for in this nouveau monde, it can lead you to be seriously trampled upon or become an ex-con.
-HRB KKD
I knw for sure this is not a rape case, aaahhhba look at a 19 yr old gal, why won’t he be tempted to touch . I guess is a set up!
@shirley why are you blaming the victim? The attire of ladies shouldn’t give license to abusers to assault them
So because she has a body that was tempting to him it was not rape? Please, please, please. Let us await the evidence and judge if it was truly rape according to what the law defines as such.even if this was not rape, I still believe that a 19 year old is not mature enough, irrespective of body type,to have a relationship with someone that old and since he is older he should know better.
@cathy , let’s be real here and stop being too judgmental, men are moved by what the see. If 19yr old gal can dress like this and mingle with old me, so shall she be laid. And hu leaves her 19 ur daughter to roam the street of Accra, and dresses like dat at night. Am not in agreement with what KKD did, jux looking at the other side of the story. It’s possible the gal agreed based on the terms she was given, and KKD cldnt fulfill. She can come out to say it was a rape.
If you want to look at the other side of the coin, then do that without stereotyping. All that you have typed is not based on any facts
Catherine hold ur horses cus u are running too fast. We all don’t know the fact, unless u want to tell us that u were there when it was happening
Hmmm fred, dats gh for u, quick in judging, meanwhile de do worse things dan our celebs
Madam hu is doing stereotyping here, pls u r entitle to Putin ur facts across so am 1. Pls don’t read whatever I write hear if u feel is baseless. And yh u can make ur fact clear even by goin to de police station ok
Shirley plZ don’t mind them, sometimes people pretend cuz they haters. They fail to face the fact.
Says the person who just typed ” we all don’t know the facts”. Lol
Shirley you sounds very shallow minded and disgusting.
Thank u very much for reminding me, it’s human nature, once in ur life time u will sound disgusting n shallow minded.
Do u have aprove he rape her? Or u are insulting cuz u are part or the planning committee. PlZ tell us
@henry am not blaming anybody here sake of de attire, and until the court prove so no1 is a victim here. Besides let’s not forget that there can be a mutual agreement and , 1 party can go contrary to it.
Shirley you are a foolish girl to conclude that because she’s 19 it can’t be a rape
Sensible Kwame , yh only sensible guys will comment on a post with an insult.
Don’t mind them shirley, when ppl hate u, they tend to believe any little allegation about u. KKD should have known better. A lesson to the likes of him, celebs. How can a girl as young as 19 follow a man to a hotel room. What is she, stupid? Once it happened in my former area. A girl claimed she’s been raped, just becos the guy didn’t give her enuf money after e act.
Ppl should stop judging the KKD. It can happen to anyone.
Of course it’s a set up. These days u never know who wants to ruin ur reputation. These men too they won’t date 25 year Olds or older, they like small girls too much. I feel so bad for him. This girl must have been waiting for the day to trap him. KKD is a catch, girls like him and throw themselves at him. This can’t be rape. It was a trap and he fell right into it. 2 bad
long post tes3 de3 he’s writing a book day in day out.lol
This is KOD’s daugher called Ohemaa she is 20 years old, how will he feel if a 50 year old takes her to a hotel bathroom to sleep with her without her consent?
Sad he has done this to a young lad like this
18yrs I believe
There is no justification for rape…no matter what the lady is wearing! I can assure you that some of the girls he wanted to rape and those he raped were decently dressed. It is his nature
There should be no reason or justification for rape no matter how a lady is dressed. Wven girls selling water at the roadside can be rapped so can a lawyer or doctor. To be honest, I believe that most ghanaian celebrities have a dark secret and I hope they are all exposed.
Say that again. ..hmm
There shld be a tell-all book abt Ghanaian celebrities. Lol
Doesn’t shock me though. I really thought he had changed. He attempted to get intimate with a female friend after conducting an interview at Sunshine FM sometime in the 90’s. I was disgusted then and wanted to go smack his ass but was restrained by my friend. I applaud the girl for stepping up cuz most girls in the same situation wouldn’t have the guts to go against a well connected celebrity like KKD. I pity her really because she is going to be victimised for even attempting to speak out.
I am more concerned about the ramifications of how we are treating this issue.
Someday, people may jump on this bandwagon to black mail celebrities and we need to check against that.