Dear GC Readers,
I’ve met an amazing guy and I enjoy spending time with him, especially cuddling and kissing. But he always want more seks…
When we first started dating about 4 months ago, my boyfriend who lived in a different state at the time mentioned how he would make love to me about 300 times in the first month and I thought he was joking or just exaggerating.
Because we are serious with this relationship, he has moved in with me and he is still job hunting as he had to quit his old job to be able to move here.
I do 12 hours shift, working 5 days a week with only 2 days off work and after each night shift, I came home exhausted.
My boyfriend doesn’t let me sleep and he keep jumping on me, even though I tell him I am tired. I wouldn’t mind if he wanted seks like once a day or something, though I would prefer to do so on my days off so we can all relax after.
But he says ideally, he wants it 5 times a day and this is beginning to frustrate me. When I close from work, I begin to feel scared going home since I know he will start the complaining the moment I ask him to allow me to sleep or relax on his chest.
Maybe it is because he does not work, so he does not feel tired but I am always tired and cannot keep up with his many seks.
Don’t get me wrong, the seks is good when we do it but just that I cannot keep up. I have told him several times but he keeps getting upset each day.
What should I do?
From: Anita A./USA
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damn girl,u ain a s*x machine or a robot..u r a freaking human being…he prolly one of those s*x addicts cos 5times a day?aden?woy3 kraman..s3bi s3bi oo wony3 aboa,woy3 nipa dasani..encourage him more to go job hunting rather thn chilaxn at home..he shd knw tht when wrkn during evening shifts u´ll bcm really tired.simple set up ur boundary,tell him ur mind..hey if he gets bad chale,mk he go hug transformer or run arnd a coconut tree.
hahahahhahahaaaaa u got me cracking up. infact i just can’t stop laughing.
loooool eeh oo,its simple koraaaa
MY DEAR, THERE COULD BE TWO REASONS FOR THIS;
EVERY RELATIONSHIP IN ITS EARLY STAGE BOOMS WITH A LOT OF S*X AND IT IS VERY NORMAL. IT GRADUALLY REDUCES AS TIME GOES ON.
IT COULD ALSO BE THAT YOUR MAN IS ADDICTED TO S*X, IF SO LET HIM SEEK HELP BEFORE HE ITS TOO LATE.
GOODLUCK!
People can be addicted? those are greedy men
Girl can’t you take days off to enjoy the s*x season of your relationship? Soon it will die off and you will be lucky if you get it once a week. This is the time to loose some weight in bed lol. Dont let him kill you while at that though
lol
WTH! That’s addiction right there.
I dont know how serious you were when you talked to him about this issue. You need to talk to him again explaining all the reasons why you cant do it 5 times a day. He needs to know that reducing the number of times will also be beneficial to his health.
If he still insist on 5 times a day after talking to him, just get him vaseline and tell him to let his right hand help him out.
Remember you are human and your own health and happiness should be your first priority. Dont be a slave to anyone all in the name of love or good relationship.
My dear av been der before, not easyooo had to let him know dat it either me or de sex,it wasnt easy bt he he came around,love u 1st n let him knw dat you come 1st in evthin if he cant he shud vamous,dont go do anythin dat wud mke u unhappi 4 de rest of ur life all in de name of LOVE