When an ELEPHANT Falls, All LESSER Animals Take a Shot | Janet Bandu Was Castro’s ‘Mistress and So What’?

Dear Chris-Vincent,

It is just sad that Ghanaians won’t let a dead man rest. Who am I to judge and who are you to judge? He who is without sin should cast the first stone. I understand that Jane’s family is grieving. People grieve in different ways. If saying they would sue Castro does it for them, why not? They need to blame someone. That is normal. One thing they are failing to consider is Castro’s family. They are grieving too.

Jane’s family when interviewed, didn’t even know the name of the school she attended. They simply didn’t know her whereabouts. Good parenting never ends. She was 24 and so what?

Good parent keep their children grounded irrespective of how old they are. I am 25 going 26 and I swear to God that I shiver when my parents disapprove of my choices and decisions because you know why? What they put in me when I was younger is STILL in me.

I am in the States but my parents know where I am at any given point in time. Same cannot be said about Jane and her Parents. Why are they blaming others? They should blame their parenting skills. If they had put something good in Janet maybe things would have been different and she would still be alive.

It is alleged that Castro refused vehemently to go on the Jet Ski with her but she still insisted and got her way. The workers tried to call them back so she could put on a life jacket but they were already gone. So suing Castro or the resort is like a waste of time and legal fees.

They should grieve. And they are allowed to do that anyway they know how. They should at least respect their daughter and just keep quiet because the more they talk; the more attention is drawn to how bad they raised their child.

Also, Ghanaians are just silly and shameless and insensitive to dead people. Why do we live and die for scandals?

They did same to Ronnie Coaches, Fennec Okyere, Suzzy Williams, not to mention but a few. Why do we find pleasure in disgracing dead people? When would we learn to let the dead die with their secrets and troubles? Is it too hard to do?

When were we ever interested in Castro’s married life? When did we ever blog about his wife? Did we even know such a wife existed? Janet was his mistress and so what? I am not condoning or saying sleeping with another man’s wife is okay but we have said enough already!

Let sleeping dogs lie. Today is Castro and Jane’s turn, tomorrow shall be yours and mine. And only God knows what’s in our closets. As my mom always says “when an elephant falls, all lesser animals take a shot”.

Am done with ya’ll.

From: Roselinda / USA

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