Dear GC Readers,
I hope to get some good advice from my fellow readers of this website as I am totally a confused man and if I dare mention any of this to my friends, I will become a laughing stock. I have learnt my lesson the hard way so with this opportunity of being anonymous, I want to tell my story and wait for the advice I can obtain from other generous readers.
I am 29 year old Ghanaian living in NJ, USA and my girlfriend is 25. I think it is better to refer to her as EX since I’ve not decided on what to do yet.
I caught my girlfriend 2 years ago cheating with her Ex boyfriend who used to beat her and even broke her nose when they were together. It broke my heart then but she pleaded and pleader. Her mother called me from Ghana and all her sisters called to beg. She said it was her first and last so since I loved her, I decided to give her another chance.
Just a year after coming back together and doing everything I can to support her, I pay her phone bills and help with her rent since she does not have a regular job, I found out she has been sleeping with my friend.
I am disappointed with my friend as much as anything but when it comes to this girl, I am hurt. How could she do this to me? According to her, they have just slept together 4 times and I don’t even know if I should believe that.
I couldn’t take this the first few days of last month when it happened so I stopped even picking her calls. She came to my work place several times so I agreed to picking her calls. Now she says I should give her a third chance and she swears on her dead father that she will never hurt me again.
I love her but I am totally confused and depressed. I don’t mind giving her another chance but what I mind and what I am worried about is, she may cheat again on me.
Please what should I do?
From: S. A./ USA
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This post was published on June 5, 2014 4:57 PM
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