This may sound like an absurd strategy or a weird guideline to consider when looking for the right woman—most people call such women, good girls. I understand there is hardly any good girl out there. As one of my good friends always says; a good girl is the bad girl who has not been caught.
But this ‘absurd’ sieving strategy has worked for me on several occasions—-and a couple of friends who have considered it have found it more than useful.
Over the years, I’ve come to realize through experience and observation, that the women who are busy with their life goals, work and pursue of happiness do not have time for the many social media ‘nonsense;. These women spend the little time they have in a way that draws them closer to their goals—and considering the fact that it is highly impossible to establish if a woman is good or bad, I tend to give attention to those who at least seem to have focus in life.
Therefore, anytime I meet a new woman—be it for pleasure, friendship or any sort of committed relationship, I tend to pay attention to their social media activities to establish if there is the need for me to run off…
I am not sure how you are able to ascertain which particular woman deserves your attention, time and mind space in life, among the numerous women you may meet in life. But for me, the ‘louder’ a woman is on social media, the faster I run away from her.
There are those women who update their BBM and Whatsapp status every 2 minutes, and there are those who change their profile pictures every 5 minutes. None of these are worth given attention to in my books. If you want your business to be known by each and every person she knows, keep talking to her…
Also, there are those who pose and take countless photos for their instagram pages, as if they are being paid to do so. Similarly, there are those who flood facebook with new photos each day—including photos of themselves in bed and posing in front of the bathroom mirror.
I make exception for those who are active on social media for work related reasons and by this I mean actresses, models and social media consultants—remember this list is not exhaustive.
Surely, I am not the only guy who ‘Googles’ or falls on social media scanning to find out more about the people I meet—especially if they are women. The way a woman carries herself on the various social media platforms sets the borderline of interest or no interest for me.
I find women who are occupied with excellence and important activities sexy—and I cannot therefore see how any busy woman with several useful things to do with her life would find more than enough time to be taking countless ‘selfies’ purposely to decorate her social media pages.
My notion of a ‘good girl’ may be different from yours but whatever yours is; I am certain you do not term a social media junkie who sits online or her phone, updating her status and photos every 5 minutes a woman worth being taken serious.
In fact, I find it extremely shallow and therefore, a complete turn off for me. I switch off the ‘non serious’ button on women who come up as social media junkies, those who do not have limits as to what they can even post on social media.
Do not get me wrong, I love and appreciate women who engage in occasional relevant discussions on social media. Also, I find it interesting when women update their social media pages with important photos from events such as anniversaries, birthdays, graduations and others—but I surely do not want to know when you are about to take a poop… And I certainly do not want to see you in your underwear—even if I want, not yet!
Whatever you do in life as a man, stay away from the social media JUNKIES, most are as cheap as they come!
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