If you really have been following Akon’s comments on relationships, you will know he has always prided himself as a typical ‘African man’ when it comes to his views.
What is sparking controversy now are his recent comments during an interview with TMZ. He thinks women need to understand that it is in the nature of men to have more than one partners…
I personally do not find any of what he is saying funny. What is Akon trying to tell us? We should not complain when men stray or we should just accept it as their nature and let men go about whenever they feel like with other women?
What kind of cave man reasoning is this? Even if you don’t mind and your women don’t also mind, why try to push that on others. Each to his belief system right?
Read Akon’s comments below and you will understand what I mean.
Women also have desires you know and are prone to cheat but there is something called discipline which we try to adhere to. What would the world be like without discipline and decorum? Not to talk of petty illnesses that result from such infidelity. All for what?
“The average guy in the world has a main girl and they got a side chick. And then they got a jumpoff. At the end of the day as a male we are natural breeders by nature. We can’t even escape it if we wanted to. Let’s say you put 1,000 guys on one corner and one bad chick walk passed. You gon’ see 1,000 heads go, ‘Damn.’
They don’t even know why they doing it. They’re natural breeders. It’s in their genes, they can’t help it. Even if you’re walking with your girl and you’re holding her hand and you see a bad chick walk by and she lookin’ at you like, ‘Boy you better not look,’ you gonna wanna look so bad and you don’t even know why that urge is there, but you’re a natural breeder. It’s what we do.
Men are put on this earth to breed and the reason why God put multiple women on this earth is for that. People are having relationships, boyfriend and girlfriend, and treating it like it’s actually marriage. You’re just dating. The whole purpose of dating is so you can date this one, and date this one, and date this one until you find out, ‘Okay, this is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. Okay now, I commit to what’s called marriage.’
You find that one woman that supplies everything that you desire in a woman, of course that will be a motivation to stick with that one woman, but I don’t know no one woman that can satisfy every man’s one need. It’s impossible. Just like there’s not one man that can satisfy a woman’s every need, but women aren’t built to breed like that or mate with more than one partner. Women aren’t built that way, men are”
The singer has gotten several people talking with many women lashing out at him.
Unbelievable logic! How does a man in the 21st century talk like this? Very selfish reasoning if you ask me. Men are natural breeders indeed! But women are not naturally like that? And who made this guy believe these kinds of things?
Are women made of steel? We have emotions too and were also born to naturally breed! What do you think about these comments?
errm..I dnt fink its ryt.but he has Jst said d truth on y men cheat ..he is. of d opinion dat men r breeders whylst women r not.. its now fast love world we hve. to really try n make. thins wrk. its true men date many women bfore eventually marrying Jst. one..if u keep it in mind dat he myt cheat its way easier for u.n besides u knw ur man enuf to. knw weda he cheats or not..its my opinion on d subject. I see nufin wrong with it..dnt cme. n. pour. any emotions on me..
@ThickMama, nice
@Oheneba Miyagi, thx.truth is truth..even though it hurts
@ThyckMama, I totally agree with you madam thick snicker bar
this Akon man. but it is true, men are dogs. some of them can be way more faithful than others so I don’t think women should accept a cheating partner for silly reasons. but keep an open mind to these kind of issues so you don’t go mad.
Akon is just talking rubbish. And what should women too do? Even if this is true, can’t men be responsible and respect women by being discipline and sticking to only a partner?
It’s true men cheat,even wen they’re in love.learning to ignore it saves u the heartache.just a handful of guys are faithful…and pls don’t vouch for anyone.the fact dat u don’t see it doesn’t mean he isn’t doing it.
Akon must be living in the stone age to talk like dat. Throughout history,wat became of men who had multiple wives n partners? Early death,no piece of mind,divided families etc. Is dis the kind of life he wants 4 himself. He shld. Speak 4 himself cuz dis excuse is absolutely cheap n lame
In public what he said is scandalous and crazy but inwardly we all know is the truth. All human beings try to have options in life. Who said most girls don’t operate 3 guys at a time? They do that to select the best among the lot. So that they can have no regrets in their choice.