I have been looking at the relationship issue of cheating for some time on here and as a woman, I like to say it as it is-because, I wouldn’t love to be cheated on. The fact that I would not like to be cheated on does not mean it will not happen to me. The only way I will be safe is if my fellow women have some sort of loyalty towards each other.
Over the years, I have realized that what most women lack and have total disregard for is LOYALTY. When it comes to men, women live like primitive scavengers with no sense of goodness or loyalty.
The sad part of this is that, many of us women are deluded or made to feel that, we are the special ones and even though a man is cheating on his girlfriend or wife with us, eventually when we get him to ourselves, he will never do the same to us…STUPID!
To me, men are just hungry unsatisfied being always on the lookout for cheap and easy food to eat. The only way they can be stopped and put under check is when those selling the food as a result of loyalty decide not to sell to them.
As a woman, I always start my advocacy by saying; if a guy who has a girlfriend/wife starts sending you weird messages, stop responding immediately.There is no sense and direction in leading him on…
If the stop button is not pressed the moment the messages starts, you will soon buy into his crap and disconnect yourself from logical thinking. By the time you know, you are aiding him to do something that you would never like to be done to you.
Why must you be the other woman? Why must you be the slut or bytch that he is cheating with? Even if you do not care about being any of the above, where is your sense of loyalty as a woman?
Being loyal to another woman is not about saying NO to a man and proceeding to destroy the happiness of the other woman by letting the cat out the bag, which will end their struggling relationship. Being loyal simple means, avoid being the used vessel and stay off.
When a man keeps looking and he cannot find any, he will return to his own and begin to give her the attention she deserves.
It hurts to be cheated on and there is nothing fun about being cheated with too. You can have sexual fun and relationship with men but make sure they are single.
Do not buy into their concept of being single because they will always lie to have their ways. Make sure and look for the little signs which may give him up as not being what he says he is.
Do not be used to hurt your fellow woman…And do not be the second woman! Together as loyal women, we can end this cheating championship of men and live happily after!
If you are a woman reading this and you are helping a man cheat on his wife or girlfriend, just end it now. Put on your thinking shoes and begin to be your sister’s keeper.
Most women will encounter cheating at some point (either being cheated on or being cheater with), whatever the circumstances would be, I hope you will not fall within the latter. Do not allow yourself to be used by any man. Don’t be fooled with countless lies and promises…
Let’s stick the loyalty button on now! If you are a woman and after reading this you still thinks there is no sense in us being loyal to one another to end the cheating habit of men, just let me know via the comment box. And if you agree that loyalty is needed to end this, please let me know too…
Have you been cheated on or been cheated with before? What was the feeling like?
hmmmmmm cheating, this is actually the solution to the problem. Stop accepting a married man’s proposal and if he cannot find any woman out there to satisfy him, he will do what is right by going back to his wife/girlfriend…
This is something that i wish women take more serious and go by it. Imagine if every woman respects the other woman’s relationship and backs off, there will be less cases of cheating. But mostly women end up being the side girl unknowingly, some men are good at keeping their relationship from the other woman.
This good continue d good work.