I know women who will say and insist the man must wear condoms until they are married to them as if STDS will disappear the moment a ring is placed on the finger…
Personally, I do not like the TEST concept where before beginning to sleep together, each party undergoes a TEST to establish whether they are STD free or not.
My problem with the TEST concept is, what happens if a man or woman passes such a test and the next day he goes to sleep with another person, catching something from the person…Would you always ask for a test anytime you guys have to sleep together? Certainly Not…
This brings us to the question; when do you insist the condom must be on?
My friend told me this true but scary story about the way we live our sexual health life. Most men and women will insist on a condom when they first meet or start sleeping with a person. The moment the fun graduates to become a serious relationship, the condom is forgotten.
At this time (enjoying a serious relationship), has whatever each person carries disappeared? Is it not the same person you were protecting yourself from that you are now sleeping with ‘RAW’ just because you guys are serious?
Having a healthy sex life can be difficult, especially if you want to enjoy it.
For me, even though I know a man can cheat and catch something (which he can bring to you), I believe having a single sex-partner is far safer than sleeping with many in the name of condoms. None is risk free but I believe we can reduce the level of risk.
As a woman, when do you insist that condoms must be worn? And when do you take the risk to enjoy it all RAW? What about the men too?
I THINK CONDOMS MUST BE WORN WHEN ITS À ONE NIGHT STAND, OR WHEN THE TWO PARTIES INVOLVED ARE SHACK UPS OR OPEN-RELATIONSHIP WHEN BOTH PARTNERS ARE FREE TOO HAVE SEXUAL AFFAIRS OUTSIDE THE RELATIONSHIP. IT IS ALSO IMPORTANT TO KNOW ONE’S STATUS THESE DAYS CUS YOU MIGHT NEVER KNOW …………….AIDS IS REAL!
@KA NE WU, I co- sign to that so what go you prefer with or without it and what’s your favourite lol
I hate condoms as well as my girl friend too do lol
hmmmmmmmmmm…. i personally do not like condoms.. buh i usually use it wen am on ma menses… theres nothin safe in this world.. God is our protection…. i always tell my guy that, if by mistakely ends in bed with another, he shldn forget to put on condoms,,,, and normally i go for test so… hmmm we shld pray we don get affected.
@RocklynLove, hold on am I reading it right you use condom when your on your “5 to 7 day” holidays (menses)?
@Dr. Miyagi Atopa,hahaha woye akoda boni paaa…… my last 6 days…. i use it from 1st to 4th day lol
@RocklynLove, ha hahahha lol abeg allow me ooooh hahahahaha
I shouldn’t be commenting since the topic is directed to the ladies, but the way I see it if a guy wont wear protection when you want him to than dont trust him if he cant do that 1 simple think because you want to do the right thing and be safe than hes no worth it. you can never be to sure go by what you think not what he’s saying and claiming. let him know this, your beeing the grown up one. i know this sounds awful but even if his last girlfriend or him hasnt had intercourse with any 1 else before if their parents had something this can be passed on to them. the pill is only 99% certain you will not get pregnant that 1% could be that 1 time you didnt wear the condom, dont be put off by what men say me myself I rather wear two condoms at the same time just for extra security cause most females can’t be trusted no matter how beautiful they are or how jiggly they look like
@Dr. Miyagi Atopa, you will wear 2 condoms is that tasty at all ?
I wont even use the lightest condom on earth…
Any way I want to know if you have use the condom with the rough spots on the tip ?a friend said it let girls scream like the world is going to end at a moment ….I MEAN MOAN
@27cдгibre(Ф_ф), well Well it serves as an extra layer of security and it desensitises the penis. If you’re pulling out before ejaculation. Thats only If you like the extra security but the dotted condoms gives both parties extra pleasure and if you do it right than she will moan, and even cry as for me I love it when a woman cries and bite her lips but try glow in the dark condoms as well kinda fun
@Dr. Miyagi Atopa, can’t help laughing when I read your comments. Anway I thought this will interest you… a new brand of condoms coming out are called “”BANG HARD”” condoms… interesting too right???. you may want to try those too. check out the link:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2258788/Celebrity-Big-Brothers-Lacey-Banghard-plans-launch-brand-condoms.html
@Sally, hahahahaha just had a peak and its sounds very interesting I guess will need some of them in my collection I kinda like the name “bang hard” first thing that came into my mind is must be a black person behind it cause it sounds so street
hahahah Heyyy Dr. Miyagi…. even 1 cd doesn feel comfortable n u wanna double am??? i dont knw wat ur woman go do u!!
@RocklynLove, hahahaha lmao as long as I haven’t sign any marriage contract I will stick too, two of them if you know how to tap it and work it than you shouldn’t have a problem
Dr atopa has spoken lol
@Dr. Miyagi Atopa, HMMMMMMMMMM LIAR.
@RocklynLove, why a deep hmmmm and what makes me a liar? Out of curiosity
@Dr. Miyagi Atopa, two condoms?? are u serious?? adzen???? when do we use a condom koraaa??? i thnk almost any time (because it rarely happens)…
@Eaglebabe, my dear I rather protect my head than to allow some girl to poison me , you never know who your dealing with all these loose girls walking around jumping jumping from one person to another
@Dr. Miyagi Atopa, but u shld have a serious girlfriend? or better still have phone sex…(which is very safe, in fact the safest) lol
@Eaglebabe, looooool phone sex? No thank you kaii you want to downgrade me hahaha, about having a serious girl it’s a good thing but i am not ready for that now I don’t want nobody to come and stress my head nowadays the world relationship does not exist anymore there are too many jokers around and I don’t have time for that now like the saying goes ” it’s only in Ghana where man see woman as food and woman see man as banks” that’s the kinda relationships most people are having
@Dr. Miyagi Atopa, hahahahahahaaaaaaa lol, thats very true
@Dr. Miyagi Atopa, that’s good advice. I don’t have a problem with using condoms at all and I always insist my boyfriend uses it. For me, until the day he puts a ring on my finger, he’s not going to get it raw and that’s my principle which I always stick to. When I get married, I can’t insist my husband uses condoms (although I heard some women do when their husband cheats and some also pack condoms for their husbands when the husbands are going on trek. hmmm, strange world indeed).
@Susie, thank you it’s a strange word indeed but I always advise most of my close friends that they should allow love the blind them because you never know who your dealing with or what even your long partner can do behind your back I’m happy you mention that you will never give it to him raw until the day he signs the contract
These GC writers are inconsistent: the whole article suggests that men are the cheats (especially the last but one paragraph). They are the same people who wrote an article about women wrongfully thinking that men are the cheats. These signals in articles are what convince readers of the stance.
What you need to realize is that, GC has over 11 writers and each of these writers has their own opinions in relations to certain issues… And these opinions are what they express in their writings. A blog post is the opinion of the writer…So you will find a GC writer who believes there is no God and another who believes there is God. It is up to each reader to find what is plausible to them.
We hardly have same views on things…That is the beauty of this platform…Yet we respect the opinions of each and every body! I won’t say because I do not like banku, I won’t allow the writers who like banku to freely write about it or eat it…I believe in diversity of any discourse!
@Posted By: Chris-Vincent Agyapong Febiri, Thanks, it makes a lot of sense now. Where can I read about you in particular and also see your picture?
Check out my personal blog http://topvincent.com
And also I have photos all around on this blog, example: http://www.ghanacelebrities.com/2013/01/04/photos-a-wonderful-dinner-with-actress-roselyn-ngissah-gc-reader-fiona-baffour-actor-atto-erick-others
@Posted By: Chris-Vincent Agyapong Febiri, thanks, but which of the guys is you. I read your block “7 magic things to do to be happy”. and I really want to have an idea of who you are. it was a good article. I was going to paste on my facebook page. Do I have your permission?
You can post it on your facebook but do not forget to put the actual link of my blog as well so people who love the article can visit to read more on other things…
I am just a happy guy out there…You can find more photos here: http://topvincent.com/2012/08/the-dot-com-lifestyle-how-i-painted-denmark-sweden-red/
thanks. Good to put a face to the name. I posted the article to my fb page giving credit to the link. All my friends love it. Will try finding you there. Keep up the good work. I am an an akwapim girl/woman married to a Ga (hence my name) and I live in Canada. I enjoy the GC pages. Be blessed.
Oh nice, glad you enjoy the site…My Mum is from Akwapim Akropong too so we are family