LIFESTYLE: The War On Men Heightens, Are You In The Fight As An Attacker Or A Defender?

If you are not aware that there is an on-going war on men between both desperate and non-desperate women, I guess you know now.

Consciously and unconsciously, we (women) find ourselves fighting each other for men. It is less intense or much unnoticed if you are lucky to be the woman defending the battle.

From when we wake up to when we go back to bed, it seems our every moment through life is channeled towards getting the attention of a man or men.

Have you not realized how other women just open their mouths and eyes wide without caring if you are looking or not when you are with your man just to gaze at him? I know it always used to be this way but then recently, things have heightened at my end here.

I am beginning to find it even uncomfortable going out with my own man. I nearly gave one ‘biatch’ a slap last 2 weeks for her ungodly gazing.

Even the female customer service advisors at super markets, banks and corporate offices are doing it. Instead of serving you and looking into your eyes, if you are with your man, all their attention drifts to him.

When it comes to those who work at restaurants and pubs, open flirting with your man has become the order of the day.  If you are not careful, your romantic night out could be easily destroyed by some of these women who are at the attacking side of the war on men.

I hope I am not just being paranoid, have you also noticed how the war on men especially decent and responsible men have heightened in the last few years?

When you look out of your windows, the things some of these women on the attacking side of the war wear say it all. Nothing is being done secretly anymore, some women storm out of their houses each day dressed in their war armour (skimpy dresses, uncomfortably tight jeans and bras), ready to attack or defend what they rightly hold.

The war on men has been worsened by new technology and social media. In the past few months, I have found women sending indecent photos to my man and I learnt I have to compete with these women.

What I have heard my friends say is this ‘if you do not send those naked photos your man wants to him, some other woman out there will freely send them to get his attention’.

Apart from the indecent photos, the indecent communication via BBM, WhatsApp, Twitter, Facebook and Text has also increased.

To be at the safe side of things and not to give myself a heart attack, I do not even bother checking my man’s phone.  He may be innocent, but these aggressive women out there in the fight won’t just stop.

Any little chance they get, they will throw in conversations which are not worth having with a guy in a relationship.

What has it been for you in the past few years or months? Are you also fighting the war on men or are you being fought?

What do you think is the actual cause of this hostility between women in relation to men?  Are the just not enough responsible men out there for all of us or what?

It seems the proud days when men used to fight and chase women have ended!