Beauty they say lies in the eyes of the beholder…Scratch that…Over the years, I have come to realize that certain special attributes that make a person beautiful does not only lie in the eyes of the beholder-universally accepted!
Though beautiful may vary from woman to woman, there are certain attributes which I think we can all agree on as universal elements of beauty.
For me or people like me, tasteful grooming, gracefulness, sensuality, poise, intelligence, articulateness, congeniality, warmth, class, humility, gentleness and physical fitness can be said to be universal elements of beauty.
With that having been said, I think I should emphasis that, things like weaves, wigs, long fingernails and breast implants which some women try to ride on in attempts to be beautiful are less of beauty ingredients. Personally, I hate these things…
That is my idea of universal and personal beauty. When it comes to you, how do you define beauty? What makes a woman beautiful?
BEAUTY THEY SAY IS IN THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER, BUT THE SAME BEAUTY CAN BE DECEIVING. À WOMAN CAN HAVE ALL THE PHYSICAL FEATURES THAT MEET TODAY’S CLASSIFICATION OF BEAUTY AND YET LACK MORALS OR VALUES. I PERSONALLY THINK BEAUTY RATHER LIES WITHIN. AFTER ALL “AHOU)FE W) STORE” ( BEAUTY IS AVAILABLE IN SHOPS) ONE CAN ENHANCE PHYSICAL BEAUTY BY SIMPLY BUYING IT!!
OUR ELDERS SAY. ” WO AHU)FE DI WO BEKO WO SUBAN DI WO B3BA” ( YOUR BEAUTY CAN TAKE YOU WHEREVER YOU WANT TO BE, BUT YOUR CHARACTER WILL ALWAYS BRING YOU BACK.)
NOTE:
THAT DSNT MEAN I, KA NE WU WILL STOP FIXING WIG OOOOOOOOOO ?? AHA. LOL
We are in the 21st century so at least a little bit of natural or light make up, weave ons, nail tips etc. will work but not to over do it but the main beauty is the character of the person. Inner beauty counts a lot. Decency and humility is the key. inner beauty tend to portray from outside. i always tell people that when you are beautiful from the outside but yet the character is nothing to write home about then count yourself as ugly because what people will notice is your character and not your beauty but when you have the inner beauty, people see you and go “oh that beautiful girl, she is so decent, she was trained well” they dont see you to be ugly.
Maturity in a women is very attractive. There’s a difference between being mature and playing grown up. An opened minded women, someone who gets to know you before make an opinion or at least give some advice I myself i’m drawn in by a beautiful smile, a toned body, sexy but not slutty fashion sense, shoulder length hair easy going positive personality with a good sense of humour. Beauty will not hold my attention forever. Like the saying goes “Men fall in love with their eyes and women fall in love with their ears. However with age comes wisdom. Men learn everything that glitters is not gold and women learn that actions speak louder than the words.” Its all about what God wants me to see
@Dr. Miyagi, wooooooow! wellsaid…..i share in ur opinion
Thanks dear@Nana Ama,
@Dr. Miyagi, U welcome 🙂
@Dr. Miyagi, Now you see why I love you so much even though I don’t know you lol!!! You speak volume of wisdom every time. I really look forward to reading your response on this blog. Greetings from America my friend.
@Jean,lol thank you so much hope your good
@Dr. Miyagi, U are wise.luv it.
@Adjoa Nbaaso),thank you
A woman who knows how to carry herself with respect is beautiful.One who knows what to say at the right time and at the right place.A little bit of light makeup and nail polish aint bad too.But above all, one who fears God and has a good heart.
@Adjoa Nbaaso), on point!