Be it a wife, girlfriend, husband or boyfriend,there are certain things you may be keeping away from that special one…If you are not keeping anything away and have told your partner everything, I am sure there are things you now regret telling him or her…
My relationship with the man of my dreams ended last year because I told him about an abortion I had some years back before he even met me. How was I supposed to know that my past (before I met him) would bring an end to the loving relationship we were enjoying?
I was always against my friends hiding things from their partners and calling it white lies…I kept telling them that, there was nothing like a white lie and no secret must be kept from the person you love…
However, after how my willingness to be opened and hide nothing from my partner fetched me resentment, insults, disrespect and finally a break up, I have come to realize that certain things are better kept untold in relationships.
My sister is currently having an issue with her boyfriend and the family simply because she told the boyfriend how much our mother does not like him. Though it is true and my mother prefers another guy, the troubles and tension she has brought upon herself have surely thought her a lesson…
What secrets would you never tell your partner? Are you keeping certain secrets from your man or woman? Are you the kind that tell it all to your partner? What has your experience been? Let’s get talking….
Well you have to know that SOME secrets could destroy any relationship. I guess it would depend on if the secret is one that “keeps on “giving: (hurting)” or one that someone is remorseful for and regrets ever happening and has no significant potential to come back to haunt you. I do feel though that there is no point in revealing past transgressions for the sake of “confessing all”. Everyone has done things they aren’t proud of, and you should live and learn from these things. Who knows, I may have things in the past I don’t consider a secret necessarily but maybe if I started discussing them they could be hurtful. So it’s a matter of perception on some issues. If we are talking sex and relationships, I really don’t want to know. I got a few general answers and we discussed relationships long before we married, and that’s the only time those issues ever came up
@Dr. Miyagi, well said Miyagi, i totally agree with you.
Thank you boss lady@KA NE WU,
where the vibrator is kept
Hmmmmm Just 1 thin i av kept from him n it must remain secret…… lol
And its i av another fake facebook account to monitor his footsteps lol……….
@RocklynLove, LOOOL!! Girl, make sure u dnt mistaken some desperate/random girl’s comment as a serious one.And I hope u ve a strong heart to take everything u see..
@Adjoa Nbaaso),hahahahaha yes….. buh he is a good guy… no treat yet..
@RocklynLove, heheheheh will find this guy and report you oooo not necessary what you dont know dont hurt so stop it.