So, my girls and I are planning to see Yvonne Nelson’s “Single and Married” this weekend since we missed the premiere last weekend. It’s amazing that we are all prepared to see this one in cinema rather than wait to purchase the DVD since most of us tend to be “chisel” LOL!
Anyway, our interest in this movie heightened when we heard that a lot of serious sexual language was being used. So we decided to look it up on Youtube and that’s when the debate started. When I heard the word “BJ” I knew at once that my friends were going to have a great debate.
Now, in the trailer, we see one character telling her partner that she would not put saliva on his lollipop because she found the act disgusting and apparently, that’s all the guy likes. Hmmmmm….
So, my friend A agrees immediately and states rather strongly that everyone has a right to refuse to do something they do not feel comfortable with in the bedroom. Friend B also responds by insisting that everyone has to try to fulfil his/her partner’s needs else the partner will get it elsewhere.
Friend C’s comment ended the debate. Here was her simple statement “when my husband first wanted to go through the back door I was adamant but guess what, when I finally agreed I found that it was quite an enjoyable experience. You’ll never know till you’ve been there.”
So GC readers, what do you think? How would you react if your partner asked you to do something you were unfamiliar or uncomfortable with in the bedroom? Would you give in or take to your heels? Also, would you be upset if your partner refused to give you what you wanted? Let us get talking….
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I agree with the friend A just because it is sex doesnt mean u have to agree with everything ur partner wants even though it repulses u.Sex is all abt being comfortable with urself and what u do during it
@Frog, True and also knowing who that person is.Too many people are using their bodies as an experimental tool.
@Adjoa Nbaaso), Very true they should know Cheap goods do attracts customers as well.
HMMMMM m3ka yes i will give her every thing she want lol i know she will not let me do something that will hurt me ,and anything i ask from her she cant refuse she knows i cant let her do anything that can harm her, i realy care about her health and her life as the way i care about mine .
DID i heard knocking from the backdoor OMG you never know unless O_0 , any way let me SHUT THE up,all i can say is BJ is a old story even though it cut sharp like hot knife through a butter.
@27calibre (O_0), You are wise , I like how you take the woman’s health into consideration.Some guys can be soo selfish to the extend that they will want you to do anything for them just to get their pleasure by saying “If you dnt do it, I will get blueballs”Am like wait, bluballs aint even that painful and am sure it lasts for like maybe 30mins so what u talking about?
@Adjoa Nbaaso), OMG what is the blueball you are talking about ??? am just curious tell em O_0
thanks for the compliments ,i learn it from my big brother and my self lol ,i just dont wanna hurt my girl friend and she wont hurt me ,we are more than friends lol
@27calibre (O_0), she is talking about your anaconda being aroused for a long period of time without ejaculating
the medical term is vasocongestion and most of the time it has to do with prostate gland
@Dr. Miyagi, is it the same as the blueball she means?
but what fine girl picture on your avatar lol
Yups the same blue balls yeah, lol avatar is Jackie Appiah before fame lol@27calibre (O_0),
@27calibre (O_0), ahahaha thanks for educating me though ,ooo jackie appiah before fame i can see how you are inlove with jackie lol
@Dr. Miyagi, My own doctor medaase for the education..Eishh anaconda ..hahahhahaaa..wasei papabi..
@Adjoa Nbaaso),hahahaha lol
@27calibre (O_0), Wow, calibre now am thinking you have to be banned from this site..LOL!!U do so many bad things and have bee confessing right here and u dnt know what blue balls is.Now, I know ur gf is too kind.Anyway, I guess our own Dr. Miyagi has done all the explanations.
@Adjoa Nbaaso), ahahah lol ,you know what about me i say the truth without any panic,saying the truth helps a lot,i am glad i came accros blue balls from woman,i asked my girl friend about this same blue balls and she explain it to that it a term used for such actions lol ..hmm am ok though…
@27calibre (O_0), nOw u should understand that women can be smarter too. u are my student for the biology class now..lol
@Adjoa Nbaaso), sister adjoa i heard you saying anaconda ,do you know what is that ?anaconda is just a snake not what you think ,hmmm girls with dirty minds
@27calibre (O_0), Ahahahahahaha..u got me lol!!
@GC. what do you mean by back door is it the anal area or what? veery confused here
Yeah the anal area…the other place!
@Posted By: GC Staff, Uhmmmm, are we in the “LIFESTYLE” column or the “LIFRSTYLE “column.? Yeah…i trust and know GC will never commit such à cheap error………..it happens sometimes. Lol
@zena,yes the anal where you have been enjoying of late due to curiosity O_0
I do not get Ghanaians, we are too hypocrite. There is nothing wrong with going the back door, In fact it is great and if you have tried it before you will know what I mean. As long as you love the person and he respects you and would not judge you, you should enjoy it all with him. Why hold back? sex is meant to be fun and enjoyed.
We are used to the stupid missionary position and all crap
@akosuaghana, WOW FINALLY THE BRAVE GIRL HAS DROP THE BOMB ,YAA ASANTEWAA OF GHANA CELEBRITY CONGRATULATION …AM PROUD OF YOU SISTER
@27calibre (O_0), More than 60 percent of Ghanaian men and women do it, and more than 90 percent want to try it too but too scared because of their social condition and indoctrinated mind set which does not allow sexual liberation among us.
The Ghanaian woman must be sexually liberated and adventurousness , that is where the fun is
@akosuaghana, where did you get that data from?
@27calibre (O_0), look at you applauding someone who has opened her ass hole really wide for her boyfrienh who wont marry her to enjoy himself after which she will bleed and experience excrutiating pain from there. Is it worth is at all?
And who told akosuaghana that 60% Ghanaians do it. I guess its in her imagination cuzrshe feels everybody is doing it like her. People respect your bodies God gave you and we are Ghanaians with a moral culture to uphold.
As for Akosuaghana akorlaboni I wish her mother was here right now to read her comments. Im sure she will get a heart attack upon reading her acknowledgement!!!!
@zena, am proud of her cos she said it ,some people will be hiding and same time do it and be condemning others from doing it ,akosua is been original by telling you the truth even if you dont like it she likes it .lol
Good speech girln I mean its only animals who will go through back door while you got something sweet infront of you. People intend to go through the back door it can only mean one thing to me the juice box is so wide open that the opesite aint feeling it anymore no wonder why majority of men always end up being gay after some time@zena,
@Dr. Miyagi, I do think ppl who go thru the back door have the potential to be a homo.I mean why do u want the back door if u have fantansies of being gay or it is the result of too much porn anyways that it is not a gud thing
@Frog,I’m not saying there are but once they get bored with females they end up going for males
@zena, good one sis
@akosuaghana, sexual liberation is good but remember that a guy that asks for the back door maybe bisexual hellooo. Infact it is a taboo and against godliness. Lets be real doing it from the back isnt Ghanaian especially when you want to get pregnant and have a baby. I dont ever want to do that not even wit $999 billion. Sorry guys, you can call me names or red-arrow me if you like but I wont do back-door with any man
@zena,I back u
Front door instead LOL
@zena, i was surprised to see smone applauding her 4 admitting she does it through d back door!!! how disgusting!! it is evil and unacceptable. it only thieves who pass through back doors, what happened to where God created 4 dat purpose???????
@jsexy, backdoor are meant for gays..God only created front seat for such an act
i dont understand it when you say BJ cuts sharp. Pls explain yourself properly
@zena, YOU ARE NOT A MAN YOU DONT HAVE TO KNOW O_0
ANY WAY LET ME EXPLAIN YOU IN THIS WAY IT FEELS LIKE THE OTHER WAY ROUND LOL SINCE YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY WHO WILL ASK YOUR MAN TO DO WHAT MAKES YOU TALK IN TONGUES OR WHAT MAKES YOU SPEAK JAPANESE (:
@27calibre (O_0), I hope you are not bisexual hellooo bcus most often it is those kind that dont mind which hole they get pleasure from. Aaaba are we humans or dogs? Lets do the right thing and keep our bodies sacred. Even its a abomination for a husband to do his wife from the back!!! Let us live right as God’s creatures plsss
@zena, but is it state in the bible ,if yes can you please give me that ! am not talking about HOMO cos i dont support that
I would give my partner everything from 4 play till 12 play even baby oil her smoot add some peaches and cream but when it comes to her”Back door” that’s a no no those things are for those diapers. Boys
@Dr. Miyagi, Eiii doctor pani3,..
@Adjoa Nbaaso),lol hahaha I mean come on if you really want to please your woman than get those candle lights out turn the lights off and put those candles on, play that slow jam on the background, get that peaches and cream ready and to spice it up the handcuffs as well play with her body like its your playground heat that body up make it hotter than fire and wet like a ocean give her the 4 or 12 play like I said give her the bedroom bully or “The butterfly position or modified missionary”, The neck to neck, or the love hug position than switch it to kamasutra positions pull her hair, pound her juicy box like your pounding fufu show her some pillow biting and trust me she will be in cloud 9 and even make you breakfast or dinner afterwards but as for the back door that’s only for animals
@Dr. Miyagi, Heeeeyyyy, reading with my mouth open like a statue oooo….Miyagi, u wont kill us here ooo..
@Adjoa Nbaaso), hahahaha
@Dr. Miyagi, true talk
@Frog,thanks you
I dont see anything wrong with foreplay, its even more fun to give or receive that pleasure before getting it in. I dont mind trying new things, if i dont like it then i dont have to do it again.
But as for the back door paaaaaa de3, IT’S STRICTLY FOR ONLY EXIT!!!!
@B.B, A BIG AMEN
Most young people are trying to do so many nasty things all in the name of luv.Our health is important and doing somethings out of luv can harm us later on.Especially with the guys, why would you want a lady suck ur freaking thing?I know it turns you on but do you think about the girl’s health too?e really need to start think out loud.I heard our s.e.x.ual organs are even cleaner than our mouths.hmmm
I totally agree with you miss I mean sometimes I don’t know why some girls can be so stupid to allow those things to happen its only meant for the exit some of the girls need to bear in mind that they don’t have to give anything they don’t need to be his toy gain sexual why can’t they just stand for their right and say look this is my body I have to go through allot of pain so its a no no the fact is bacteria can enter the Urethra and cause some serious problems@Adjoa Nbaaso),
@Dr. Miyagi, medaase hun..
@Adjoa Nbaaso),your welcome
my current boyfriend has never sucked or lick any womans front door before if u ask him why, he will tell u only dogs fuck with their mouth and secretly i am very proud of him but i have done it before lol. As for da back door he will tell u any man who is capable of doing da back door has da tendency to be gay….end of story.honestly he makes me regret soo many things i have done in life.and this is da man i am engaged to be married to.since we cut back on soo many unnecessary things our love making has bein soo much better.der re many things to try and do dat can improve loving making without all dat nasty things……everything is permissible but not everything is beneficial
# the holy Bible
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@inchristalone, real talk you should be really happy with him cause that’s nothing but the truth
@inchristalone, Hmm, ur man is a good christian then.He is no freak.My dear, dnt regret the things u did..U were only exploring.Someday u will advise ur girls(kids) with it.
@Adjoa Nbaaso), and its so sad and I don’t get what is wrong with them too I bet that is how many ppl get diseases of unknown origins these days
from the knowledge i have,in de art of lovemaking,de bak door is excluded,i mean hw could a woman get to his peak when she is being pounded heavily at the back door which i heard is really painful,disgusting.
In many instances or cases where God’s purpose have been undermined or traded for humans ungodly thoughts–a lot of bad consequences have come out as a result. It baffles me beyond imagination and sad how we human have question the Creators wisdom and we paying for it. Those taking it from the back door will surely rip it consequences.
I wonder why any woman in her right mind would allow any man use the BD. It’s disgusting, must hurt an awful lot and has health consequences. People are just weird. God have mercy on us.
I have to be honest I always read articles on this website and this is the first time I have felt moved to comment. Firstly, trying the back door doesn’t make you gay/have tendencies to be gay; look at a woman’s curves from behind and look at a man’s and tell me if you can compare the two??! I dont know about you guys and your girls but am shapely and my husband appreciates every curve. Which brings me to my next point; everyone keeps saying ‘my girl/my man’ what happened to my “husband/my wfe” are you guys telling me you are “fornicating”! Because if we are categorising things as sin lets not forget, that is a sin too ooooo mmm hmmmm.
When it comes to bedroom antics having saved myself for my husband it’s the time for me to explore and try new things, unfortunately for me it is impossible, however I WILL NOT JUDGE anyone who chooses to do it with their partner as some men and women do find it pleasurable. Let’s not start pointing fingers and calling people sinful because the want to have s** the way they want to.
Maka mede3 ^__________^