Dear GC Readers: My Ghanaian Man Lied To Me; He is 11 Years Younger Instead Of 2 Years He Told Me…

 
Dear GC,
I’ve been with my man for just four months but he has betrayed me and I confused if I should walk away from him.
I met him on the  5th of October of last year. I remember the date because I met him on my birthday. Aside from not being from the same country (he is from Ghana I’m from Congo), we also realised I was two years older but we still have a lot in common and we became a very close couple.
Even after such a short time I knew I was in no hurry to go anywhere. We have done all the things most couples have done, met each other’s friends and family and he even wants me to go to Ghana with him next month to meet the rest of his people.
When I told my parents of me being older, they were not happy. I didn’t care coz it’s not a big deal and it’s not something you can even noticed. He looks old for his age and though I’m 35 I don’t look it.
When we were booking the tickets for Ghana and I wanted to look at his passport photo to laugh at his picture, he gripped it angrily and made excuses for why I couldn’t see it. I was a bit annoyed because he was rude about it.
I just ignored it until I went to have a peak amongst his documents. I didn’t see the big deal because he looked really cute in his photo, but then I noticed the date of birth. He had lied to me; he wasn’t 2 years younger he was 11 years younger.
I felt sick at the lie he had told! He was 24… I remember he was in the shower at the time but I did not care and threw the passport at him, took my things and left his place.
Now If I think of it I feel like I should I known or realised. I feel so stupid. What else has he lied about I just can’t forgive him. He has begged and begged via messages as I refuse to pick his phone. He says it does not matter I just don’t know what to do and too embarrassed to discuss this with anyone.
Am I overreacting, I’m confused.
Worried Francesca.
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Dear Francesca,
This is indeed a hurtful lie and will of course make you question all else he has said because you’re relationship is still quite new. I do think you need to find a way to be calm enough to listen to him to ask why he lied, you do not need to make any decisions as yet.
Hope this helps!
All The Best
SassyChic!

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