Dear GC,
I’ve been with my current girlfriend for just for over a year and I haven’t told my baby mother about her. My big sister is saying it aint right and I need to stop being a coward and tell her. My girlfriend says she understands but I know it upsets her.
The main issue is like a lot of baby mothers she is very unreasonable. In fact the woman is just plain rude and blackmails me with our two year old daughter if she does not get her way.
I never thought becoming a father would have such an emotional effect on me. I cannot think of not being able to see my baby as much as possible. Her mother knows this and uses it in her favour.
I chose not to tell my baby mother about my girlfriend as she has made it known she still has feelings for me and wants me back. I do not feel the same and don’t want a relationship with her.
I know if she gets to know about my girlfriend, like many times before with other things she will stop me from seeing my daughter and I can’t have that right now.
Am I wrong?
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Dear Michael,
While I do understand your intentions to protect your ability to see your daughter, this is only a short term solution to your baby mother blackmailing you with your own child. In all honesty knowing how women are she probably knows already.
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my dear,you are not indebted to her in any way.gone were the days women used pregnancy and babies to trap men in marrying them.these days it is no longer applicable.at times women can act quite foolishly ,so tell her the truth about your new girlfriend and allow her to keep the baby from you for sometime,you would see her coming back to ask for the baby’s housekeeping money.so please let her suit herself ans see if she would not change her mind.
but please be very careful,women are not cloths that you change when you fall in and out of love.if you love this one marry her and do not go about impregnating her as well.
u dnt luv her but u fucked her wit no condoms right?wicked boi….sumone u dnt luv dea..u dnt hav to luv her bby as well…let the one u fink u luv born 4 u….foooool
@nani,No you’ve got it wrong. They has the baby then separated. At the time they were in “love” but not anymore.
It happens a lot.. using the little one to control the father. No new thing. He’s caught between a rock and a hard place.
Having a baby with someone is not a license for love or marriage. Let her know that you have moved on, and that it will not change how you feel about your daughter. She shouldn’t be selfish. It is not about her, it is about the child. Let her know you have moved on, so that she will not continue to keep her hopes up knowing that you guys may end back together one day.
as a woman i understand that emotional attachment can blind us sometimes and we make the wrong decisions, but with maturity and age we learn to cope and move on, so please to all my sister’s that are so call baby mamas please when a man have a baby with you and has moved on clearly because sometimes men do play games don’t use the child let him have a relationship with his child and encourage it without your presence you don’t need to babysit because it’s his child he will figure it out and you never know he might realize someday that u were it and you get him back, stop giving him rules on whom and where him and his child suppose to bond with, for the new woman in his life please note that he had a past before you and his child is a priority so don’t make it harder on him just understand and support and even though i know that child is not yours but try to treat them right and let him bond with his child on their own terms and it’s his job to let the child learn who u are and how they suppose to bond with you
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