So I believe in the whole forever thing. Marriage may be not be all sweetness and light because in truth, most partners experience downtimes in their relationships. Still, I think the vows of marriage are to keep a couple loving each other for better of worse. While a woman should be free to leave an abuser or a cheat as the case may be.

I think there are reasons to rethink leaving a partner so easily when the down times come in a marriage. Below are some of them.

1 – You’ll be better person in so many ways.

Partners who are smart, honest and share their opinions and outlookwith their spouses will improve them. They will challenge you on so many levels and this will bring out the best in you. There are the sayings that two heads are better than one and about iron sharpening iron, and they are true in a marriage.

Spiritually, intellectually and all of the other -allys considered, the only way is up. Being married grounds you in a different way from just taking care of yourself. This is even more so when the children begin to come. You learn one of the best attributes of life, self sacrifice and commitment.

2- You’ll be much happier and healthier.

When you marry a person you are compatible with, the chances are very high that you’ll be happier than you were when you were single. No man is an island.

Most of us have been biologically and socially engineered to want a partner. This desire when attained will in the right conditions continue to yield fruits of happiness. Apart from that is the matter of spending lots of time with someone who cares for you, and who makes you happy.

This is a major boost to your selfesteem and will probably spill over to other aspects of your life, making you take more joy out of things you may not had even considered otherwise.  Statistics have shown that this happiness translates to better health for married people and may even contribute to them living longer Continue Reading From Here