Hello GC Readers,
My name is Steph and I’m a 26 year old man in a relationship but have got a problem with another young lady.
This lady happens to have once been my friend’s girlfriend but things didn’t eventually workout between them.
This lady keeps professing love to me even though she knows I am in a relationship. She continues telling me my friend is still begging to come back but she’s no longer interested in him.
My friend himself keeps telling me he’s got nothing to do with her anymore. Pls advice me on what to do.
Thanks.
Dear Steph,
As the saying goes, two’s company but three’s a crowd. It’s easy to get dragged unwilling or unknowingly into other people’s relationship issues.
I have to assume you are happy in your current relationship. Therefore your loyalties and attention should only be to your current relationship.
It sounds like she may not be taking No for an answer or taking a hint that you are not interested. I have to assume this is the case as this wasn’t made clear in your letter.
Sometimes people want what they cannot have so be weary of this lady’s intentions. Make it very plain and clear you are not interested.
Keep your distance it’s not worth ruining your relationship or your friendship! Nothing good can come of a relationship that starts with betrayal.Best of luck.
Regards,
Ms. A.K from GC XXX
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