Dios mío…I think that is oh my God in Spanish?…Ok those of you who are into basketball, Los Angeles Laker Lamar Odom got the biggest gift ever after the NBA championship. Rumours has it that he got it from Khloe Khardasian and very expensive. She is not his cougar. Oh no she is his wife. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this. I would have done the same thing for my husband.
Now do not get me wrong with what I am about to write. This has nothing to do with Kardashian. I haven’t dated all the guys in the world for me to conclude that men take advantage of women who buy them expensive gifts, or gifts in general. Let me keep this short and detailed.
Ladies, would you get your man (boyfriend) expensive gifts or even go to the point of proposing to him?
And guys, what do you think of a woman buying his man a present of proposing to him?
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well i see nothin wrong with it infact im doin it rite not in buyin him expensive gift but thins re not goin as it surposed to so i have bein tryin to help in anyway i can.i reali dnt think it any big deal if both have dated for long or re commited to eachother nd for da proposing one i will say hmmmm i dnt think i will do dat.dat me
well,i think buying gifts for your boyfriend is no big deal but proposing to him is a no no to me.
@naa sometimes circumstances demand you propose fast, even before he starts thinking about it. i love ladies that can pitch. go on ladies we waiting 🙂
I wil buy him gifts n anytin he wants. Thats no problem. But propose? dats a big NO for me. They feel big wen women propose to them.
Ok da proposal thing for me is a BIG “no-no”…I don’t know but I just think it’s kinda backward if da woman does it…& for me its no where near as romantic if a man is da one proposing…da gifts thing I primarily work on a “u scratch my back & I’ll scratch yours” system…meaning for every 20 gifts he buys me he’ll get 1 from me LOL…nah nah I’m playing…I wouldn’t mind buying something for my man…just as long as he buys me stuff 2 it’s all good
No problem at all buying things for my man… whether it be clothes, a car, jewelry etc, if I love him and can afford it, I want to see him have and wear nice things. Gifts are gifts and should come from the heart and because u want them to have it, don’t buy something just because they bought you something first, lol.
As far as proposals, its more ideal for a man to do it, I can’t see myself asking first even if I really wanted to-though I might hint at it honestly if i was into them that much LOL, and i wouldnt knock any girl who had the insentive to ask a man to marry em. Different strokes for different folks…………………………………………..
i tink all all is cool, buying nd proposing. Lets make a change ladies…lol
I thk women shd also proposing so dat they can also know how it feels like 2 be stretched unnecessarily when we propose 2 dem. Besides they always say what men can do they can do it better so wat prevents them 4rm doing so. Pls can someone answer dis question 4 me. Why do women sometimes pretend as if they hate u when deep down within them they’re madly in love wit u?
lollll…Chuckylee u r funny…stretched?..eij…anyways to answer your question, not all women pretend they hate u but they r actually in love with u…dont generalise. I am nice to a guy when I am in love with them…i get sad and a little bit angry if they are not interested but I dont pretend like I hate them…that is immature…I dont have time for that…besides I like male friends than women…we r too dramatic sometimes…lol…ok to answer your question I read somewhere that its a defense thing, especially when they dont want the guy to know about it…it is just a cover up in my opinion…your question is simple but very compex at the same time…that type of hate is actually not hate..its is “passion”..hehhe..but honestly, I cant really give u better answer..but i think it is just a cover up…a defense thing and ego maybe? + a lot of things…dont try to understand women…you will go mad…lol…just go with our rules..;)
@May, Correct me if am wrong but I thought hate and passion were very distinct.
@May, LOL she said it. ” dont try to understand women” exactly. I can’t understand and won’t try to comprehend why somethings are done.
@May, Thx May 4 da clarification.
lol… I guess it’s a Gh ladie’s thing. They won’t propose ever! I would receive expensive gifts from my lady but would but expensive gifts in return. The exchanges will leave a plain field for both.
i don’t c anytin wrong w/ buyings gifts 4 ur man as long as u don’t over do it. And as 4 proposing 2 a guy i would do if it’s worth it.
@missy, When is it “worth it”?
I really don’t see anything wrong with buying a guy gifts. I would do it for my friends anytime, so when it comes to my man I will most definitely shower him with stuff. I buy ‘just because it will look good on you’ gifts, ‘you don’t own it in this colour’ gifts, ‘It’s a his and hers’ gifts, basically the only reason I buy my man gifts is just because… I understand women who say that it makes the man feel like he’s got you wrapped around his little finger, and I guess it’s just a blessing that I never meet those types because they will surely take advantage of you. But study your man, if he’s that type then he doesn’t deserve you. But please give with your all heart but within your financial constraints, you’ll never know what tomorrow brings. Take note that I said within your financial constraints because love is not about borrowing to provide luxuries.
Proposing? I would love to. Don’t be deceived, Image is something and if society frowns upon it you are probably better of, at least 60%of the time, not doing it. In our part of the world, women don’t propose to men, and so I will SAY that the best one should do is to hint but I BELIEVE in doing whatever the spirit or soul says.
HAHA BUYIN HIM GIFTS IS ALRIGHT BUT PROPOSE TO A MAN NEVER EVER,
GODFORBID.EITHER HE PROPOSE OR NOT.A GAL SHOULDN´T WAIT TO LONG FOR HER BOYFRIEND TO PROPOSE,WHO KNOW IF HE EVEN WANNA DO.U WILL BE WAITIN N WAITIN AND THEN WHEN U LOOK AT UR AGE THEN U ARE TO OLD FOR MARRIAGE N TO GET A GOOD MAN BY UR SIDE.